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Brotherly Love Bootcamp

When the bickering between Lindsay and Cole recently reached an all time high, Ken and I decided to enlist them in brotherly/sisterly love bootcamp:  We made them share a room for a week.  Lindsay had to descend from her private upstairs princess suite to the dungeon—her brothers’ room!  She wasn’t even allowed to enter the ‘royal chamber’.  This was extremely difficult for her since she rarely ventures out of these quarters for more than a meal or piano practice.  She even had to do her reading in the presence of her loud, obnoxious brothers.  

 

The end result?  Two kids who are much more courteous and conscientious toward each other.  They even chose to play a game together tonight, and were laughing together! 

 

Next time I’m having trouble loving a brother or sister, maybe I should send myself to brotherly love bootcamp, and walk a mile beside them.

 

Comments

Patricia said:

Oh...that is soooooo good, Shannon.

# August 14, 2009 2:52 AM

The Farmer's Wife said:

AAAARRRGGGHHH! Not the "Share The Room With The Despised Sibling" lesson!!! I'm sure the first few days, there was indication that someone would be scarred for life...

Don't worry about having to find a way to spend bootcamp with a difficult sibling in Christ.  It has been my experience (see? scarred for life...)that our Heavenly Father generally throws us together leading a Bible study or in the nursery or (and this is happening right now) hosting a babyshower.  

What a timely message, as usual, for your spiritual sibling in Montana! Drats.  How DO you do it?  Do you have a web-cam planted somewhere in Cohagen?

We're taking up the masking tape boundary line we drew through room, on the floor, but we haven't yet gotten to the point of hugging, yet.  It's coming along...

# August 14, 2009 5:13 PM

Shannon said:

Patricia, Thanks for the warm response.

Farmer's Wife, No, no web cam.  Only the Light of the World, shining a strobe light into the dark crevices of my soul.  :)

So true that the Father assigns our bunk mate!  I'll pray about yours if you'll pray about mine!!  

# August 14, 2009 10:22 PM

Cheryl Elmer said:

I REALLY enjoyed this one, Shannon. Did you also suffer through that whole week???

# August 16, 2009 6:34 PM

Denise said:

Growing up, all four of us kids shared the same room for a long time.  Because of it, my brother and I are close.  Then it was my sister and I who shared a room and my two brothers shared a room, my sister and I are still close.  My youngest brother, who I didn't share a room with much, and I are not close at all, sadly.

Saying all that, all four of our boys have a joined room but the two oldest share and the two youngest share a room.  (Gotta love old farmhouses)  If all four of them were in the same four walls, I believe an all out brotherly war would ensue...at first.

I'm glad you were brave enough to put your daughter and son together, glad you stuck with it and I am sure they will remember it fondly when they are older!

# August 18, 2009 8:08 AM

Shannon said:

Cheryl, I was actually suffering more with the bickering!  Nothing grates my patience more than constant sib-spats!

Denise, four in a room reminds me of my dorm!  And I'm still close to several of my roomates!!  You would think close quarters would work against them being close, but I think I'm seeing a pattern...  Thanks for sharing!

# August 18, 2009 9:42 AM

alice said:

Hi Shannon--thank you for visiting my blog! I am enjoying reading yours as well. I enjoy reading from other moms who are tackling spiritual issues, sibling issues, and yes, cleaning up the kitchen. :-)

I like your solution for the brother/sister fighting. I also read about someone (w/ two girls, so I'm filing it away for future use!) who when hearing them bicker too much told them, "This is not music to my ears," so she said they both had to stay together in the bathroom until they could come up with a way to set their disagreement to music, then come out and sing it to her.

It had the desired effect. I look forward to reading more of your entries!

# August 25, 2009 7:45 AM

Shannon said:

Thanks for stopping by, Alice!  I'm going to have to file that singing idea!  It's great to network with another mom/writer!  :)

# August 26, 2009 4:45 PM
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